For those of us that come from a personal history that taught us that self-anything is indulgent (and, the dreaded s-word, selfish), remothering is a courageous act of self-love.
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Although Earth Day began in 1970, when I was in elementary school in the late 70’s and early 80’s, we hadn’t gotten the memo yet. Naively unaware of the environmental impact, my 4th grade class sent off balloons in hopes of finding a pen pal.
“Hi, I’m _____. I’m in 4th grade. Do you want to be pen pals?”.
How does that sweet memory relate to remothering? ….
A personal story.
I’ll share what happened with the caveat that if you have a healthy relational dynamic with your mother, no matter how carefully I choose my words, this anecdote may not resonate.
Navigating life’s twists after spotting patterns. A community-member shares: ‘Simona, you asked about frustrations, here’s mine: I spotted the adaptation, but I’ve already roped myself into a situation’
Ever notice yourself reverting to old ways of doing and being, and then we wonder wtf?!?
Hint: understanding implicit memory is a key
Ever wonder why boundaries can feel hard, even when it seems like we “should” know what to do or say?
If our minds still associate boundaries with selfishness or negativity, merely knowing what to say falls short. In this in-depth conversation, I sit down with Juliane Taylor Shore (Jules) to dig into the neuroscience underlying our ability to set boundaries.
Have you ever found yourself entangled with a difficult relative (mother or others), a challenging co-worker, or a high-conflict neighbor?
Sometimes despite the difficulties, we may have reasons that we choose to maintain the relationship.
Explore these 5 transformative ‘Remothering Moments’ for nurturing self-compassion, healthy boundaries, and self-alignment. My favorite is #95, the remothering moment for staying up late watching RomCom’s.
Learn how to set boundaries and overcome ‘boundaries are selfish’ conditioning in this essential introductory guide
Phrases like “I always”, “I never”, “I must”, are clues that we may be operating from within an unconscious contract that may no longer serve
