Our adaptations can transform into our super-powers when we call on them intentionally. However, when we don’t recognize them as adaptations, they can show up as reflexive go-to patterns.
Do you wield yours hard-earned gifts? Or do outdated patterns wield you?
Ever feel the weight of unspoken expectations, the pull to help or fix before anyone even asks? Many of us were wired for hyper-awareness, carrying a metaphorical weighted vest without even realizing it.
The good news? That vest can come off. And the strength we’ve built along the way? That stays with us.
Let’s explore what we were wired for—and how we can begin rewiring for more peace and ease
Holiday guilt? Here’s how to compost those emotional triggers into healing and thrive-forward moments…
Are you a dutiful daughter struggling with persistent guilt? In my recent conversation with Rachel K. Hudson on her podcast, we delve into how deeply ingrained patterns can trap us in an endless loop of guilt.
This article explores key insights from our discussion, shedding light on how early conditioning leads to people-pleasing, perfectionism, and other outside-in adaptations. And, we get into actionable steps to break free from those patterns.
Growing up with an emotionally immature parent can leave lasting imprints on our psyche and behavior. These imprints often manifest in adulthood as struggles that can be challenging to navigate without understanding their origins.
To that end, here are five common after-effects of growing up with emotionally immature parents and how they shape your adulthood.
Ever struggle with harsh self-talk? What about guilt for taking downtime? In this article we explore how these internal voices form, and more importantly, practical steps to quiet them
Navigating life’s twists after spotting patterns. A community-member shares: ‘Simona, you asked about frustrations, here’s mine: I spotted the adaptation, but I’ve already roped myself into a situation’
Healthy relational rhythms include REPAIR. For those of us that didn’t learn that when we were growing up, we may have some adaptive patterns that may no longer serve. In this article, we’ll take a look at…
What happens when we see our outdated patterns with more clarity? It’s not easy, but the discomfort won’t last forever. Here are the common
