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Sometimes WE are the complicated mother (uggh!!)
If we’ve been doing our work to heal from our own mother wounds, and then we bump into rough relational waters with our own kiddos, it can feel disorienting.
So, what can we do?
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Self-blame Spiral- why & why it matters
Here’s why we spiral into self-blame and what we can do about it. (hint: this falls into the category of adaptive then, but costly now)
What were you thinking tree?
If the tree isn’t spiraling into regret and self-blame, why do we? Hint: figuring out how it was our fault would have been developmentally wise…
Life Lifing
(a personal update)
Grief for what was.
Grief for what never was.
Grief for the ripple effects of both.
Ever Experience a Mental Hijack?
Ever find yourself mentally sparring with your mother in your own head—long after the actual conversation ended?
Remothering with AI: Finding Language for the Tangled Moments
“It sounds like a performance of pleasantries wrapped in a nest of unresolved history.”
That reflection? It landed.
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What Is Remothering?
Remothering is the self-care practice of turning within to access the nurturance, belonging, wise counsel, acceptance, love, and other mother qualities we, as humans, naturally seek.
The formal definition is…
Remothering Roadmap
Part of the “how do I remother myself” series. This article is a step-by-step overview of the remothering roadmap
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