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Pen pals via balloon launches (remember those?)
Although Earth Day began in 1970, when I was in elementary school in the late 70’s and early 80’s, we hadn’t gotten the memo yet. Naively unaware of the environmental impact, my 4th grade class sent off balloons in hopes of finding a pen pal.
“Hi, I’m _____. I’m in 4th grade. Do you want to be pen pals?”.
How does that sweet memory relate to remothering? ….
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Disentangling from a difficult mother: relief from crushing guilt
A personal story.
I’ll share what happened with the caveat that if you have a healthy relational dynamic with your mother, no matter how carefully I choose my words, this anecdote may not resonate.
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How to navigate situations after we’ve spotted our adaptation
Navigating life’s twists after spotting patterns. A community-member shares: ‘Simona, you asked about frustrations, here’s mine: I spotted the adaptation, but I’ve already roped myself into a situation’
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Implicit Memory: How Our Brain “Knows” a Thing
Ever notice yourself reverting to old ways of doing and being, and then we wonder wtf?!?
Hint: understanding implicit memory is a key
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Setting Boundaries That Stick
Ever wonder why boundaries can feel hard, even when it seems like we “should” know what to do or say?
If our minds still associate boundaries with selfishness or negativity, merely knowing what to say falls short. In this in-depth conversation, I sit down with Juliane Taylor Shore (Jules) to dig into the neuroscience underlying our ability to set boundaries.
What Is Remothering?
Remothering is the self-care practice of turning within to access the nurturance, belonging, wise counsel, acceptance, love, and other mother qualities we, as humans, naturally seek.
The formal definition is…
Remothering Roadmap
Part of the “how do I remother myself” series. This article is a step-by-step overview of the remothering roadmap
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